Alla Smokie’s Updates

  • There’s A Line For This

    Back to getting on some new shit with Shuttlesworth and Dr. Know It All. We hit one bar and sit down at a table near the dance floor, there’s two girls dancing in front of me and when they move around, I tap one of them on the elbow and motion for h...More

  • Grandmother wants to spend time alone with her grandson who is now part of a new blended family

    Dear Loveawake: I have a daughter who is a single mother of my 6 year old grandson. They lived with me until Ben was 3, and we are very close. My daughter is getting married in a few months and has moved in with her fiance, Sam (whom I adore). He ha.....More

  • Seduction is Manipulation

    I was recently giving advice-solicited advice, thank you!-to a friend of a friend and, well, she didn’t like what I had to say. After awhile she crossed her arms, frowned and said, “What you are suggesting is manipulation, not seduction!”

    Smili...More

  • Gas Prices Too High? Try Virtual Dating

    Virtual reality is not all about games anymore, in fact, it’s grown up quite a bit

    Virtual reality is being used by companies to train employees, by students taking college courses, to provide physical therapy and now to help singles find meaningf...More

  • Mature Singles

    This is a very tough challenge

    Second, heartily agree with everything Jeff said

    Third, heartily agree with Bloomsbury Bell

    I would just add that you might want to go to a counselor alone. It might help you learn how to approach him over the is...More

  • Craigslist Dating: Cross-country Booty Call or Something More?

    A reader named Jen had a bit of a fling. Or a craigslist re-fling, as the case may be. And she’s wondering if it might be possible that he’s for real. The request is pretty long, so here are the bullet points. Peeeow-peeow!!! (That’s what bullet poi...More